Friday, March 13, 2009

Sympathy Sayings

People find themselves at a loss for sympathy sayings when, tragedy strikes. Your feelings in particular, are very tough to pen- down. In those moment of grief you can hardly think of anything & its not difficult to imagine why. However, being a friend, you should take it upon yourself, to help the mourning family & think of ways or sympathy sayings, which is going to lessen their pain. Sympathy sayings can be conveyed on various occasions for instance, when there has been some sort of misfortune to your friends etc.

I know its very difficult to keep control on yourself, let alone, the thought of comforting others, during that time. More so, when you hear the news of someone, suddenly,” passing away”. You can think of nothing else & all the other things become secondary in your life.

But then, just think of the deceased`s surviving family. Give a thought about what they would be going through at that point of time. It becomes a tad easy for them if, they have got someone to share their grief with. So, it`s quite essential that you regain control over yourself, as soon as you possibly can. Then, think of some of the words or sympathy sayings which are going to ease the suffering for the mourning family.

There could be nothing better at this point in time that you can do for them. So, just think of some sample sympathy messages carefully, which are not only going to help you but also, help the surviving family.

I must confess that there are indeed some words & phrases, which can be a solid way to express your sympathy, & can also do wonders in helping, the bereaved family & sooth their pain.

A few of the sympathy sayings which I would like to share in here, with you are, “________will remain in our hearts forever”, “Remember that we love and care about you & will always do”, “ You are in my thoughts”, “Memories of _________ will always be close to our heart”, “ May the peace which comes from the loving memory of ________ comfort you”.

One thing which you ought to remember in here is the fact that the mourning family is not looking for something which is a masterpiece or original, but something, that`s going to show your concern & feelings for the deceased & his/her surviving family. So, just try to relax, I know its easier said than done, but atleast try to give it your best shot.

At this point, the bereaved family goes through one of its worst phase, we can possibly imagine. Your job is to make sure that this phase gets over as smoothly as humanly possible. The task is quite tough but with carefully planned sympathy sayings, it becomes easier to heal their pain more quickly. So, just try to use the aforementioned sympathy messages & try to add a personal touch to them, which is very important.

Adding a personal touch shows that you put in some time to convey those sympathy sayings. It also depicts some concern, which you have, for the soul which has just passed away. So, just follow these steps & hopefully the pain of yours & your loved ones will be lessened to a great extent.

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